[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/nekdy-to-boli-vic-nez-je-zdravo\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/nekdy-to-boli-vic-nez-je-zdravo\/","headline":"N\u011bkdy to bol\u00ed v\u00edc, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo!","name":"N\u011bkdy to bol\u00ed v\u00edc, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo!","description":"Lid\u00e9 se z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu p\u00e1ruj\u00ed v p\u00e1ry, zakl\u00e1daj\u00ed rodiny, berou se a prost\u011b v\u011bt\u0161ina douf\u00e1, \u017ee jejich partner je ten, se kter\u00fdm zest\u00e1rnou! Takov\u00e9 my\u0161lenky maj\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u011b \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 samoz\u0159ejm\u011b od p\u0159\u00edrody tou\u017e\u00ed po romantick\u00e9 l\u00e1sce, svatb\u011b, d\u011btech a po v\u0161em, co od mali\u010dka sleduj\u00ed v poh\u00e1dk\u00e1ch. Pokud i vy jste \u017eena a za\u017eila […]","datePublished":"2023-05-25","dateModified":"2023-05-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sekin.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298802_w2219_t1509025573.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a298802_w2219_t1509025573.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/nekdy-to-boli-vic-nez-je-zdravo\/","wordCount":546,"articleBody":"Lid\u00e9 se z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu p\u00e1ruj\u00ed v p\u00e1ry, zakl\u00e1daj\u00ed rodiny, berou se a prost\u011b v\u011bt\u0161ina douf\u00e1, \u017ee jejich partner je ten, se kter\u00fdm zest\u00e1rnou! Takov\u00e9 my\u0161lenky maj\u00ed speci\u00e1ln\u011b \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 samoz\u0159ejm\u011b od p\u0159\u00edrody tou\u017e\u00ed po romantick\u00e9 l\u00e1sce, svatb\u011b, d\u011btech a po v\u0161em, co od mali\u010dka sleduj\u00ed v poh\u00e1dk\u00e1ch.  Pokud i vy jste \u017eena a za\u017eila jste rozchod, v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee nejste jedinou \u017eenou, kter\u00e1 se pot\u00fdk\u00e1 s velkou bolest\u00ed u srdce. Ta bolest je potom tak re\u00e1ln\u00e1, \u017ee nev\u00edte, jestli je opravdov\u00e1 nebo jen v hlav\u011b. \u017deny pak maj\u00ed tendence vymyslet sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e, kter\u00e9 nejsou, jen proto, aby sv\u00e9mu egu zm\u00edrnily bolest, ale ve skute\u010dnosti v sob\u011b \u017eiv\u00ed nad\u011bji na opravu vztahu, t\u00edm si zv\u011bt\u0161uj\u00ed hrocha na sv\u00e9 hrudi a t\u00edm prodlu\u017euj\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed. Je pot\u0159eba se na to pod\u00edvat p\u011bkn\u011b re\u00e1ln\u011b a sm\u00ed\u0159it se situac\u00ed. Pt\u00e1te se jak, proto\u017ee to nev\u00edte? Co ned\u011blat po rozchodu?  1. Nesledujte mobil V \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nedoufejte, \u017ee se neozve. Neud\u011bl\u00e1 to. Va\u0161e zoufalstv\u00ed je c\u00edtit na tis\u00edce kilometr\u016f daleko. Pokud se s v\u00e1mi roze\u0161el, m\u011bl k tomu d\u016fvod. Z 99 % toho litovat nebude. Nen\u00ed \u017eensk\u00e1. 2. Neidealizujte si situaci Nesna\u017ete se sob\u011b namluvit, \u017ee to co \u0159ekl, myslel jinak. Nev\u011b\u0159te, kdy\u017e \u0159ekl, \u017ee mo\u017en\u00e1 bude jednou litovat, \u017ee to myslel v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. Cht\u011bl t\u00edm zm\u00edrnit va\u0161i hysterii a dal\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1sledn\u00e9 reakce. 3. Nepi\u0161te mu p\u0159ipit\u00e1 Pokud v\u00e1m po p\u00e1r sklenk\u00e1ch p\u0159ijde rozumn\u00e9 mu napsat, co si o n\u011bm a cel\u00e9 situaci mysl\u00edte, v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee je to \u0161patn\u00fd n\u00e1pad. Pokud si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee je vhodn\u00e9 mu \u0159\u00edct celou pravdu o va\u0161\u00ed hlubok\u00e9 l\u00e1sce, v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee tak\u00e9 nen\u00ed. Akor\u00e1t mu uk\u00e1\u017eete svoje zoufalstv\u00ed a pak u\u017e nebude existovat ani to jedno procento, kter\u00e9 by mohlo zvr\u00e1tit situaci. 4. Neprohl\u00ed\u017eejte fotografie a videa Neprohl\u00ed\u017eejte si spole\u010dn\u00e9 fotografie a videa z dovolen\u00fdch, ze spole\u010dn\u00fdch romantick\u00fdch v\u00fdlet\u016f {LINK}, oslav a dal\u0161\u00edch ud\u00e1lost\u00ed.  Co naopak d\u011blat, pokud jste v takov\u00e9 situaci? 1. Vypi\u0161te se z toho Vezm\u011bte si pr\u00e1zdn\u00fd pap\u00edr a napi\u0161te mu dopis. Vezm\u011bte to do hloubky. Popi\u0161te svoje pocity tehdy a te\u010f a vypi\u0161te se ze v\u0161eho, co jste mu kdy cht\u011bla \u0159\u00edct. DOPIS MU NIKDY NEPOS\u00cdLEJTE! 2. Vymluvte se z toho Najd\u011bte si terapeuta, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s vyslechne a povede v\u00e1s ke skute\u010dn\u00e9 podstat\u011b va\u0161eho tr\u00e1pen\u00ed. Proto\u017ee lid\u00e9 by m\u011bli b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed sami se sebou, nem\u011bli byste tolik truchlit po rozchodu. Pokud trp\u00edte hodn\u011b, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b si nesete n\u011bjak\u00e9 bolav\u00e9 r\u00e1ny z d\u011btstv\u00ed. 3. Bavte se Za\u010dn\u011bte cvi\u010dit, starejte se o svoji ple\u0165, kupte si nov\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, cho\u010fte s kamar\u00e1dkami na k\u00e1vu, nav\u0161t\u011bvujte koncerty. NAU\u010cTE SE \u017d\u00cdT BEZ N\u011aJ a zjist\u011bte, \u017ee to JDE!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (1 vote)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"N\u011bkdy to bol\u00ed v\u00edc, ne\u017e je zdr\u00e1vo!","item":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/nekdy-to-boli-vic-nez-je-zdravo\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]