[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/laska-a-zamilovanost\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/laska-a-zamilovanost\/","headline":"L\u00e1ska a zamilovanost","name":"L\u00e1ska a zamilovanost","description":"L\u00e1ska je bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e1, a a\u010dkoliv se to m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t na prvn\u00ed pohled p\u0159ehnan\u00e9, opravdu ji d\u00e1vat dok\u00e1\u017ee jen velmi omezen\u00fd po\u010det lid\u00ed. Zamilovanost, pokud je prov\u00e1zena skute\u010dnou l\u00e1skou, je nesm\u00edrn\u011b okouzluj\u00edc\u00ed, a i kdy\u017e se v budoucnu mohou objevit sign\u00e1ly v\u0161ednosti, st\u00e1le je ve vztahu ten prvotn\u00ed siln\u00fd n\u00e1boj p\u0159\u00edtomen. Zamilovanost v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt […]","datePublished":"2018-12-18","dateModified":"2023-05-25","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d693d76da4b3c2905ed32515295d3c5b2b37600a891f276917d3d592948bcc60?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"sekin.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a331648_w2048_t1544262735.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a331648_w2048_t1544262735.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/laska-a-zamilovanost\/","wordCount":447,"articleBody":" L\u00e1ska je bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e1, a a\u010dkoliv se to m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t na prvn\u00ed pohled p\u0159ehnan\u00e9, opravdu ji d\u00e1vat dok\u00e1\u017ee jen velmi omezen\u00fd po\u010det lid\u00ed. Zamilovanost, pokud je prov\u00e1zena skute\u010dnou l\u00e1skou, je nesm\u00edrn\u011b okouzluj\u00edc\u00ed, a i kdy\u017e se v budoucnu mohou objevit sign\u00e1ly v\u0161ednosti, st\u00e1le je ve vztahu ten prvotn\u00ed siln\u00fd n\u00e1boj p\u0159\u00edtomen. Zamilovanost v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt projevem n\u00e1klonnosti k bytosti, kterou bychom si r\u00e1di p\u0159ivlastnili a diktovali ji sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed n\u00e1zory anebo zp\u016fsob \u017eivota. Setk\u00e1v\u00e1me se s t\u00edmto motivem dnes na ka\u017ed\u00e9m kroku v mnoha rodin\u00e1ch a partnersk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch, a kdy\u017e pak opadne prvotn\u00ed nad\u0161en\u00ed, na povrch vyplouvaj\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00e9 povahov\u00e9 rysy. Ta prvotn\u00ed euforie m\u016f\u017ee nasazovat lidem r\u016f\u017eov\u00e9 br\u00fdle, a jakmile nast\u00e1v\u00e1 \u010das kompromis\u016f, je to z\u00e1rove\u0148 prvopo\u010d\u00e1tek konce ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vztahu. Ka\u017ed\u00fd vzd\u011blan\u00fd a zku\u0161en\u00fd psycholog v\u00e1m pov\u00ed, \u017ee se ta prav\u00e1 l\u00e1ska pozn\u00e1 obvykle na prvn\u00ed pohled. Ne tedy p\u0159\u00edmo doslova zrakem, ale pocitem. C\u00edt\u00edte n\u011bco tam uvnit\u0159, \u017ee tam cosi vibruje, ta touha b\u00fdt s druh\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem kv\u016fli jeho vlastnostem a ctnostem, nikoliv proto, jak vypad\u00e1 a jak se tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed . To je jen pozl\u00e1tko. Zapome\u0148te na kompromisy Ve filmu Svatebn\u00ed cesta do Jilj\u00ed s Josefem Abrh\u00e1mem a Libu\u0161\u00ed \u0160afr\u00e1nkovou se objev\u00ed my\u0161lenka, \u017ee se dva lid\u00e9 nejl\u00e9pe poznaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e spolu cestuj\u00ed. N\u011bco na tom pravdy bude, jen bychom to mohli trochu up\u0159esnit. Nejl\u00e9pe se ti dva poznaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e spolu hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu berou zodpov\u011bdnost do vlastn\u00edch rukou, spole\u010dn\u011b rozhoduj\u00ed tak\u0159ka o v\u0161em a hlavn\u011b spolu tr\u00e1v\u00ed a pl\u00e1nuj\u00ed voln\u00fd \u010das. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed je, kdy\u017e maj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy (alespo\u0148 n\u011bkter\u00e9), a kdy\u017e se oba dok\u00e1\u017eou zabavit \u010d\u00edmkoliv. Velkou \u0161anci usp\u011bt ve vztahu maj\u00ed lid\u00e9, co se raduj\u00ed z drobnost\u00ed a um\u00ed si u\u017e\u00edt i ka\u017edodenn\u00ed rutinn\u00ed \u010dinnosti, a nehrout\u00ed se z ka\u017ed\u00e9ho drobn\u00e9ho probl\u00e9mu. Potkat mu\u017ee a \u017eenu do nepohody nen\u00ed zrovna snadn\u00e9, ale pokud se v\u00e1m to nepoda\u0159\u00ed, m\u011bli byste se alespo\u0148 o zm\u011bnu na sv\u00fdch vlastnostech sna\u017eit. Ze v\u0161eho nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bra a komunikace. Jestli\u017ee se tomu druh\u00e9mu m\u016f\u017eete sv\u011b\u0159it s t\u011bmi nejnitern\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi tu\u017ebami, v\u0161echno ostatn\u00ed pak p\u016fjde mnohem snadn\u011bji.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"L\u00e1ska a zamilovanost","item":"https:\/\/www.sekin.cz\/laska-a-zamilovanost\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]